We also learned to resolve conflict amongst ourselves, because nothing prevents sleep better than an angry sister. OP should involves the courts to be emancipated asap. you also expect them to have their own bathroom?!?!? I am so sorry for your loss, and with your mother's seem of lack of care towards you and your feelings. Still a stupid decision though because 2 people need more space. But yeah sounds like a story. Not a good sign & shows how poorly your step-dad has raised them. THEY made things worse because of the way they treated you in the first place. It is nobody's choice but you who is in your life or who you have relationships with or when if ever. Nta. I sent Dean and Kevin invitations but once they found out that our stepdad was going to be there, they said they might not come. You get locked out of your room.

He didnt remarry or even really date until we were both out of college and settled on our own, he cannibalized the equity in our house, which he could no longer quite afford, with a HELOC so we wouldnt have to move, he always put us first even though you could see he was hurting (mostly in retrospect for me obviously).

Some people are so cruel and you dont wanna risk it.

So it's not JUST the room sharing thing although that certainly doesn't help, especially in a step family situation. Oh honey you are so NTA here, if you can remove yourself and stay away from that toxic environment please do, your mom has failed you here. My dad is technically my stepdad but he is the only dad I have ever known. Ooooof yeah they're full grown adults acting like angry teens. It's pretty common to share rooms, regardless of age. what is it about becoming pregnant that suddenly makes one more of a public.. property, for lack of a better word? Archived post. I mean 18-20 year olds regularly share rooms when they go away to college sooooo. She seemed to think I was dumb for even asking. Especially just so the stepsister can use it as an art studio? NTA. We were lucky we never got to unpack the boxes we have of all the wedding things from my parents wedding cause knowing her she would of sold what she could since she had sold furniture that was meant for my sister and I Exactly! I am sorry your gift to you father was ruined. Refuse to share a home with either stepsibling. NTA. No punishment of your stepsister will make up for the jealousy and sexism of your stepfather. I wasn't able to keep much of his belongings because of my stepdad's insecurities and lack of sympathy and respect for me and my dad. I hope youre doing okay today. But since they have to share, its possible one of the girls will use the bathroom to get some space more. Your mom also did nothing to set boundaries or punishments for others damaging your property. anyway, you call them by what they are, twisted monsters, and his father should've known, I mean he saw how they treated your mother, so it's not like you're lying about them being vindictive people, NTA and good for you for cut all contact with them. Well I disagree. You can force people to live peacefully but a communion doesn't take place unless the people want to be together. No way would I want them even hearing about my child. That's the ironic part, the ending is basically "don't be an asshole to your nice step mom who did nothing wrong or it'll backfire horrendously", AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! Evil Step-dad with an Evil step brother and sister. Kids don't fare as well.

Madam, you have chosen your new husband and your step children over your daughter, time and time again. The housing situation is fine aside from the two daughter should have the larger room and the male should have the smaller room. NTA. You don't have to have a relationship with them. Their closet alone was bigger than 2 of our rooms combined(their bathroom was HUGE). Your mom made her decisions, you are more than welcome to make yours. NTA, crazy step family. I'm sorry about what happened to your gift. NTA, protect your kids, those people are crazy. Im sorry that she programmed her children to be horrible to you and your mother.

Seven kids in my house growing up and the bathroom became the place to call friends, have quiet time, or even cry among other things lol. Some ideas: Somewhere you can lock up your valuables and sentimental items so your stepsister cant get to them, the removal of the lock on the door, for them to step up and enforce the rules when stepsister is being unfair to you. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. These adult children have been babied for far too long. They all suck and you should not let them pull you back. When I was in college I wanted to buy myself a full or queen bed for my room at home and my mother said only boys need a big bed. Your uncle sounds amazing as does the family on your side thats pissed at mom as they all should be. She is not the one who made your stepsister break your gift.

OP is better off far away from them both. NTA Your mom chose a new family over you, and honestly I'd probably have beaten my stepsister over something like this. NTA. She has failed you in every single facet possible as has your stepfather. AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my brothers could come? Your stepdad is asking you to set yourself on fire again for his romantic ideals of family. So they treated you and your mother like shit, and your SD now wants you to have a relationship with them. Your mother is TA for not doing anything when everyb6 was being mean to you. It is known that people with strong marriages, who lose a partner, remarry quickly. I definitely wouldnt trust them around my children. Sounds like both parents failed spectacularly here. NAH - since your stepdad and mom punished your stepsister immediately i will actually not call anyone an asshole in this situation. I made up my mind the moment this showed up in your first paragraph. The values your step-dad holds ( maybe your mom too? They're his kids. Your stepdad sounds way too jealous of your dad. Your father would not want you to be treated this way. Good luck! Her dad said they would all apologize if she insisted, but that Tim would "lose the little respect" that the men had gained for him. And my dad was/is super scary and no one would stand up to him. After Abuelo finished digging out the basement on the farm house, there was a bit more room. Thanks for letting me know. He should have gotten his daughter a box with a lock where she would be able to keep her art supplies safe. She is saying it herself, she has done nothing, and in this case it deserves the "punishment" of no / low contact from you. From what I remember he still needed her signature and she wouldn't give it. Im overwhelmed, so I can imagine how flooded OP is. I literally freaked out because I definitely want my brothers to be at my wedding so badly and I tried talking to them but they were being stubborn.". Nta, you just stated you didn't want them in your life for the reason of how vile they are and how they treated you and your mom. They are clearly not emotionally stable. NTA. I thought votes were counted so that the threads can be crossposted? As far as I know, if you write ESH, it will be counted as "OP also sucks". Look after your mental health. Your uncle did more in the space of one visit that she has done in 3 years. Welcome to /r/AmITheAsshole. Don't feel guilty for taking actions to protect yourself and for leaving a home where you weren't welcome. AmItheAsshole Original. Not the people you want in your life. Yeah, they were both in their 30s when they sent that link. But the way my mom explained it to me, people who had good marriages are eager to get married again and they remarry faster after the death of their partner. They're adults in their 30s now. Unbelievably fragile ego on him. Stay with your uncle. "Why do I have to be civil in a sub about assholes?". Your Mom has not protected you. If you are on summer break, this may be a great time for a trial run. NTA you are the only minor in the house, to me that means you should be their primary concern until you are An adult. Wow. Trying to fit 2 people in a small room (Obviously I'm not sure how big the room is) and telling them: Share the space is going to create a violent, toxic situation. Getting locked out of your own room is kinda nuts. Sorry youre going through this. You cant put a price on all the trauma you will spare yourself if you stay away from this dysfunctional hellhole, NTA I absolutely understand you op, Im 22, my mom died a year ago, she was married to my dad for 24 years and were still married when she died, he moved on the next day, made dating profiles and went wild. For an 18- and a 20-year old, they are both pretty immature. So already, OP is at a disadvantage because it's already their home. FYI, its coddled, not cuddled. Way different meaning!

It's beyond me, I'm sincerely sorry for everything they've had to deal with. Your mom deserve to know how you feel about all this. They sound toxic. Your mother has failed in her role as a mother and wants you back because you leaving shows that fact to everyone. Low Contact or No Contact with Mom and her new family would be best for you. They're acting like young, spoiled kids. Losing your parents (in a way, she's lost mom AND dad) even in the modern age is more like a fairy tale than it should be. If you are happy with staying with your uncle please do so for a while! Im so sorry you lost your dad, that your gift was destroyed and they dont respect your loss or grief. These people are monsters and you have every right to choose to exclude them entirely from your life (and they deserve no less). You need to remind her that. They never had to accept me or my mom, but they went far beyond just rejecting us. My mom kept bitching about what an ass he is, but still expected me to maintain a relationship with him. Have your mom curse death upon them if they don't shape up. NTA. It sounds like this was the stepsisters room, and the poster, whose dad only died 3 years earlier, moved in rather quickly after his death. Oh my god. I dont get how the 20 yo step-brother didnt get in trouble at all for convincing a 16 yo to help do his dirty work like theres already a power imbalance because of the crappy man business and now theyre letting him get away with saying OP helped him? Talk to mom several times a day. THANK YOU it's JUST a dick, and obviously not a great one if he's THAT insecure about her deceased ex-husband! Please stay with your uncle indefinitely, and be fully open with your family about everything that happened at the hands of your stepfamily and your mom. Also, if you're in the US, you should be receiving survivors benefits from your father's social security. Your mom has continually failed you here.

My cold heart is actually hurting for this kid. 1.) Message the mods if you have any questions or concerns. These people sound like a group of borderline narcissists(my mother is 1 & I cut ties once I realized); stepdad is clearly sexist and your mom seems to allow it all yet begs you to stay. NTA. NTA. Fortunately, you dont have to be there still getting emotionally pummeled for now. Not allowing you to keep belongings of your father's due to his own insecurity is atrocious. The room issue is also likely a significant source of friction between OPs stepsiblings stepbrother is keeping the large room on his own, his sister is annoyed that she has to share the smaller room even though she also needs space for her art. This was what pushed you over the line. I'm so glad you have your uncle x. NTA 1000%. Weirdest thing about that movie to a modern audience has to be that "introducing the cast" bit after the ending. NTA, stepsister in particular sounds really toxic. But damn. Honestly, it was a hostile, toxic and negative environment. Unfortunately, your mom doesn't sound like the kind of person who makes smart choices. Even if you did decide to forgive your mother (I wouldn't personally. They should be! (Thats also fine, stepkids don't always bond with their step parents and its completely fine so long as they are civil!) Your position is not only understandable but, I think, thoroughly justified. Your moms family recognizes this and thats why they have your back and dont want to talk to her, so please dont put that blame on yourself because its not your fault. Don't forget that Mom allowed OP to be locked out of her own room, allowed Stepsister to control the access OP has to her room and her stuff, and denied OP access to her deceased Dad's things because Step-Dad is insecure! Nta, your family sound like giant bags of garbage. She probably just graduated HS. Brother made you an accomplice and while your parents tried to make it up to you I think its the best choice for you to not live there. I'm not surprised she moved out. But Im wondering what took you so long to get out of there? How about you tricked her?? This is the straw that broke the camels back. About his kids, don't let those demon spawn anywhere near your child or into your home. WTF??? If they treat you and your mother horribly - what could they do or say to your child.

See about getting some therapy if your uncle can afford it for you. I know firsthand what a terrible age that is to lost a parent. AITA For Runing My Mother's Mother Day;

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To act like you shouldnt blame her because she didnt actually harass you, just let you live in a house where your step siblings can act like monsters and bear no blame. I think it may be a good idea to apologize to him, not for what you said but simply for the fact that you hurt him with your words. You mom was involved. However, it is just an example of how I also dealt with shit and it really isn't that bad in the big picture. You've done the right thing. Your mom has allowed you to be treated like you aren't really family. Do you know why kids do illogical shit sometimes? I'm truly sorry you had to experience that. This is way beyond reddit. As far as your fathers parents, what do you care what they think? I am willing to bet your uncle and other family members were wanting to help you sooner but felt pressured by your mother and SD. Your mom is a FAILURE. My mom had the house built when I was 14, in a town in a region popular with tourists. You should be a priority now and forever. Be free and enjoy life! If a parent is sick does everyone just stay out of the living room?

I cheered on reading that OP had moved to her uncles place; only thing her mother should be surprised at is that it wasnt sooner. There's so much someone can take, and you took it and then some. Also, dont let the gift being ruined ruin your visit with your dad. (or see you at all). NTA- how were you supposed to know what your stepbrother intended to do with the paints? You should be able to stay. They apparently didn't watch until the end of The Lodge because the joke would be on them. It sounds like this was the stepsisters room, and the poster, whose dad only died 3 years ago, moved in rather quickly after his death. You and your uncle might consider calling CPS and/or suing your mom for custody. Not having access to the room to sleep in is grounds for child protective services to get involved if youre in America. She did marry a guy who belittled your father's legacy because of his own insecurities and was an accomplice in locking you out of your own room. Your horrid step siblings don't deserve courtesy, but it sounds like your dad really loves you and has been put through a heart-wrenching experience. She did nothing as she watched you get bullied and abused in your own home by everyone around you. Go and don't look back. My father sacrificed everything to give me and my brother the rest of our childhood. These are legal adults. NTA whatsoever, I would also be scared of what they would do or try if they see or find out you're having a kid, considering how insanely vicious they see you and your mom, I think letting them in would only give them a way to come up with ideas or ways to damage or genuinely hurt you or your kid or spouse (I say this too because of how deeply ingrained they have of the belief that your mom caused their mom to die. I suspect its because girls arent supposed to be having sex and a big bed would promote that? Your stepfather is a grown man who couldve and shouldve put his big boy pants so that you couldve had more belongings of your dead father. Yes. And let him know that you understand that he would want a relationship with his children, but your mother and you have no desire to ever see them again. I know of a family where the parents take the living room so their kids can all have their own space. Your post honestly made me cry cause I felt each and every word and your frustration and sadness. She didnt do anything to protect your personal space when you got lock out of your room. I remember my exact response to her was.. what exactly are they doing in bed that they need a bigger one? Stay with your uncle. Their 'pranks' went from wildly inappropriate to outright dangerous," another user wrote. Like, can y'all read? And honestly I think it is better they are not in your life, but one did try to drown my sister and bash her head into a boat propeller when we were little, Sounds like early serial killer behavior. Stepbrother responded in retaliation for stepsister ruining his gaming console, and the stepbrother did not destroy a floral arrangement that OP handmade for her deceased father on father's day. There is no helping them if they do not seek to help themselves.

Thousands of users quickly flocked to the comments section of the bride's post to provide their support and call out her family for bullying Tim. Even when we were older they still shared because there was literally no other space until they moved out. NTA. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! And prepared a nice wooden letter shaped pot ~used my dad's first initial~ Yea your mom is a fucking asshole for making you live in this hostile environment. Dont go back and make sure you get your dads SS benefits. If you can stay with your uncle, I would. Your Mom is right, she did nothing to deserve this. I certainly hope that if your Mum isn't able to prioritize you above her need to have a partner, that she allows family members whom are to provide you with a stable & loving home. Guest rooms are supposed to be practical and nice for a couple of nights, but remember, when guests get too comfortable in there they overstay their welcome." They might be grown adults now but so am I and I'm still my parents kid just like their still my dad's kids. Your mom should want what makes you happy and if you're happier being away from your bratty, spoiled insecure stepsister then she shouldn't stop you. Do what your mother didnt and keep them out of your life. She should've been more understanding to your feelings and also can't believe she let your stepdads insecurities leave you with very little of your dad to remember. These people wished death upon your mother, I think saying they are "vicious and twisted" is the least of his concerns. I'm so sorry I'm so glad your uncle was there for you.. can you stay there? one thing I don't understand, are your stepsiblings that stupid or naive or were they pretty young when their mother told them about "the curse"? Also, I asked my brother for 20,000 for my wedding but he refused and now I wont take his calls, says young bride. This is why parental alienation is so horrible. My dad has two kids from a former marriage. I asked if he got permission he said yes so I gave it to him and went back to study. Think about the circumstances - you dad dies which sucks, your mom remarries rather quickly and now all of a sudden a relative stranger is sharing your room and on top of that being a jerk about it and ruining your stuff. Hi. One thing is certain, she shouldn't be allowed to take it out on you, and your mother failed to protect you from her. That your mom moved on so fast is actually a sign that she and your father had very a good marriage. If the room you share has a lock for which you don't have the key and need permission to go in, then you don't actually have a room. NTA in any way, your mom is supposed to advocate for you. It's about time your father acknowledges the truth that there will be no relationship with you and his kids. AND IF GIRLS ARENT SUPPOSED TO BE HAVING SEX WHO DOES SHE SUPPOSE BOYS ARE HAVING SEX WITH? Youngest child being bullied by 18/20 yr old sibling asshats that are still breaking eachothers toys into adulthood. Im gonna go against the grain here and say gentle YTA. When she described the gift she made her dad, ugh you can just tell how much it meant to her and how much she misses and cares for him. NTA. Yeah growing up, at one point my brother's shared a room and there was 4 of them. NTA. Adults destroying each others stuff over petty crap. Im not saying what you are doing is wrong, but I dont blame your dad for trying to bring all his most important people together. Your stepbrother also was an AH lying to you to get the paintset and make you his accomplice; in the end its also his fault that his sister took her anger out on you. Youve got a good uncle . They like being married because they had a good marriage. Your mom choose these people and quite frankly theyre kind of awful. I wouldnt move back in or talk to your step family and I would insist on family therapy to repair your relationship with your mom if thats what you want and tell her it is her responsibility to book the appointments. In the words of Tyrion Lannister, she has done nothing. She did nothing to defend her daughter. If they're not taking care of you, they shouldn't be getting the money that is meant for you. Not that it is "morally" right, but it could just the custom where they are. Your mom needs to be in therapy to figure out why she allowed you to not keep your dad's things just because your stepdad can't handle it. I am not calling you the A-Hole and will not do any judgement, what she did was wrong, but it was instigated by something you caused. NTA. Your mother failed you in every step of this. If she really loved you and valued your feelings, she wouldn't be acting like the victim right now and saying that she "doesn't deserve to be shunned" by you and your uncle. I think "NTA". I see it happen all the time on here. That's on the step-dad. No relationship to salvage here. Your comment has been removed because it violates rule 1: Be Civil. Nta. I'm quite close with all of my sisters and I love them very dearly and I was grateful for the extra bonding time. OP, you are NTA and honestly I commend you for handling it the way you did. Remember this when you turn into an adult. NTA. I don't blame you. Just wondering why you're questioning OP (the child) and not the actual adults in the house. I wouldnt feel safe with your stepsister around. Tormenting you and your mother wasn't enough? You were far too charitable considering what they have done to you and your mom. Sucks that their mom poisoned them against your mom and you, but they are too far gone for any hope of reconciliation. Movie ends with the father's death and Mia and the kids fates unknown, but probably not going to end well - even as well as it could at that point. NTA but I want to add an unrelated comment. She is 18 and should have to get a job and leave. She did not take any of your feelings into consideration and she even allowed you to stay locked out of your own room. How the fuck did she "nothing to deserve to be shunned by you" if she already failed at the most basic task of giving you a room to live in? They are. She is not protecting you. NTA. You moved out because of the constant abuse and neglect you were suffering from.your mom deserves to be shunned by you because of all the shit you went through and her lack of being there and protecting you. It's not just one person here whose the AH, Except the OP of course. Sorry for your loss. A realistic solution for the way they act is for your parents to insist its time for them to move out, but I dont see that happening anytime soon. Probably unrelated, but I would be interested to know what SS "harsh punishment" is - whatever it is probably isn't even close to adequate. Seriously! New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. NTA. Dean and Kevin never had a good relationship because they never wanted my mom and dad to separate in the first place, they resented my stepdad and limitied contact once they moved out. Anyways, sorry, I know you probably meant well and I'm not trying to be an AH myself or anything. They are toxic in your life. NTA. Where is your mother in all of this, does she not get a say? My mom was always raised to believe that when you marry someone you treat their kids like their own but you respect the biological parents and make sure the kids are always put first, not the adult feelings. Step families with petty assholes are the worst. Nta, you have been failed multiple times. All of it. Use a non shared space. Im glad your uncle is able to care for you.

NTA - Absolutely NTA.

Very toxic household and I'm very grateful you have your uncle to escape to!!! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. I believe you should talk with your stepsister about it. If its an option, I hope youre able to stay with him indefinitely. Youre not obligated to have toxic people around you. NTA. You sound like a wonderful kid. You prepared a wonderful gift for him.

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